gnustl (and others) are to be removed in future versions of the ndk
also bump gradle and build-tools to current versions along with it

arm unfortunately crashes with llvm-c++, so keep with gnustl for now/fix
that later

Change-Id: Ic794c3293b599b77ec48096bf3283a99c09cbb79
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